One of the BEST, most clearly written, most lucid books ever written about the realities about taking care of older family & friends is also one of the oldest. The amazing Wendy Lustbader wrote this waaaaaay back in 1993. Rang as true back then as it does in its current, revised edition. Worth every penny!
Wendy writes more as a friend than as an AUTHORITY, which can be comforting when you feel like so much is spinning beyond your control